Keeping the Family Together

Mrs. Anita’s Tough Life Full of Struggle

Mrs. Ana Cruz was born on July 26, 1924 in Oak Ridge as the only girl in a family of seven. Her mother was María Cruz of Trujillo and her father was Sinesto Hinds from San Pedro Sula. Mr. Sinesto lived in Belize for some time and worked as a carpenter.

Her parents moved to Oak Ridge and that is where Mrs. Anita went to five grades of school. Mrs. Anita spoke Spanish at her home, but even today she still prefers speaking Spanish and her English is burdened with a heavy accent.

When she was 18 she met her future husband – Mr. William Nixon. “We met at a dance in French Harbour,” remembers Mrs. Anita. A year later the couple had a wedding. There were cookie and candies and Mrs. Anita had a glass of wine to toast. That was the only alcohol she had in her life.

Mrs. Anita life included many people addicted to alcohol and nicotine. Her husband worked hard doing carpentry, farming and fishing, but he also drunk quite a bit. This made getting ahead for the family difficult. It also created a poor example for some of their children. These addictions have fallowed the family through generations and she had seen her children and grandchildren succumb to vices. It has not been an easy life for Mrs. Anita or her family.

We met at a dance in French Harbour.

Mrs. Anita’s family moved three times in her life. These were big, life changing events, more memorable for her than hurricanes that battered French Harbour. In 1971 Mrs. Anita moved with her 12 children to a French Harbor house close to the cemetery. Yet again, in 1993 she and her six grown children moved to a lot in Los Fuertes.

Mrs. Anita lives on a modest compound that has several wooden houses that belong to her children and grand children. At 96 she is the oldest person in Los Fuertes. Mrs. Anita dresses and washes herself; she walks to her plastic chair to see the people walking in front of her property.

She is a religious lady and above her bed there is a picture of Sacred Heart of Jesus. Mrs. Anita is Catholic and used to go to church well into her 90s. Now her wheelchair doesn’t allow her such a trip but the Catholic nuns, Franciscan Sisters of Immaculate Conception, have a convent in Los Fuertes and check on Mrs. Anita form time to time.

Today four of Mrs. Anita’s 12 children survive. She has seven grand children and 13 great grand children. Her advocate in the family compound is her granddaughter Rosita Janet Nixon. Mrs. Rosita was brought up by her grandmother and thinks of Mrs. Anita as her mother.